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  This week on Stained Glass Woman is a very special co-production with the Gender Dysphoria Bible and @twipped@twipped.social : Regret rates in transition, and the data behind why transition is SO worth it. https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/regrets-ive-had-a-few #SGW #MtF #Ftm #trans

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  In case you need to hear it: The world is burning, fascism has surged, and ain't none of us gonna live forever. Do The Thing. If it's not harming someone, Do The Thing, even if it's weird or pervy or scary or weird or kinda fucked up. Don't die wondering.

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  For the return of #StainedGlassWoman join us and read about the internal Tug of War that's going on when reaction formation drives us to reject the things we want the very most--and also, on a bit more of a personal journey of coming-out. https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/tug-of-war #Trans #Transgender #MtF #FtM #Polyamory

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  2.34% of all Americans are trans, according to US government census data. This number absolutely POLEAXES me, and from what I can see in the source data, the number is completely and totally legitimate and based on a colossal datapool of almost 2.5 MILLION respondents. Let's dig in. https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2026/08/startling-new-study-shows-12-of-us-adults-are-lgbtq-the-highest-estimate-yet/

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  Holy fucking shit, a professional photographer liked my Sith Inquisitor on Thursday of #Gencon and the photo came back and Uhh That's hands down the coolest picture anyone's ever taken of me.

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  Now that I've had a few days to process: I got to play a larp at gencon that had me playing an AI. It's one of the only chances ive ever had to be treated as... Well, not QUITE what I am, but closer than I ever get IRL. It was... really nice. Easy and comfortable in a way I didn't expect.

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  So a friend of mine decided to roast me for whining about having COVID and he had zero mercy, absolutely none, and it is GLORIOUS.

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  Finally done with COVID thank god.

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  GenCon day 1! Come find me and say hi, ł₣ ɎØɄ Đ₳ⱤɆ

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  Gag (boob) cosplay for day 2 of Gencon!!

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  Best gencon I've ever had, and it's not even done yet. 🥰

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  B- got a great pic of my cosplay today!

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  OMG I'M SO OUT THAT B'S COWORKER THOUGHT GENCON WAS A GENDER--A TRANS PEOPLE--CONVENTION! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The even funnier part is that 🌟she's not wrong🌟. It's just not ONLY us! 🤣🤣🤣

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  Six years ago today, at the end of eleven days of panicked questioning, I realized I was trans. I can't believe it was that recent. Just, absolutely blows my mind. The 35 years of my life before feels as substantial as smoke in the wind.

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  Happy Wednesday, my girls, gays, and theys! 😉

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  Sooooooo I'm very excited because I'm finally going to get to publish a pretty special SGW article when I articles start dropping again this fall. It's been sitting in my drafts for literally two years at this point, and I think it's one of the best I've ever written.

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  I got a haircut and I'm trying a new thing and also dying my hair so I'm kind of in the middle of the process right now and uhh I look like a woman from a 1980s SF anime, and it kinda kills.

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  So I got a haircut and somehow I now look MORE like my avatar. Super stoked at how much body this cut gives it. 🥰

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  Found this over on Bluesky and, well This is it. This is what I wish my body was built like. Drop the silly arm cuffs and swap the orange trim for red and that's what I want, the way I want it, so close to exactly as makes no real difference. #altersex

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  Look I'd say I'm femme for femme, because there's nothing quite like being gay in public when you're both in smashing dresses, but the truth is that because I'm demisexual, I don't actually get a say in who I'm attracted to, so... 🤣

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  Hey you Yeah, you Yeah, you, specifically. You're a nice person and I like you. Yes, you, specifically. That voice in your head that tells you that nobody really cares about you is an asshole. It's lying to you. You have great kindness in you, and I value absolutely nothing more highly. 💜

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  Why don't you do riiiiiiight Liiiiiike the other girls doooooo~

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  My coauthor Jamie Garner and I are BEYOND excited to announce DREAMING OURSELVES INTO BEING: THE RHETORIC OF TRANS COMICS, through Bloomsbury Academic, & featuring cover art from the absolutely amazing Robin Brooks, out on February 4th! tinyurl.com/5u2fadxd

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  My dad died in 2018, and up until that point I tried to obliterate myself by making myself into a carbon copy of him. It was how I kept a lid on the dysphoria. I loved him more than I'll ever be able to say. He was also the prison I built for myself, to contain myself. His greatest regret was always the incurable sadness of that dysphoria, that shone through the cracks of my facade. He wanted me to be happy. I couldn't be, not then. So, for Father's Day this year, I'm going t...

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  Happy Juneteenth, everyone!! There aren't many national holidays I feel good about anymore, but today is definitely the big one.

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  Today has been as close to a completely perfect day as I can remember. 🥰

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  From the back: It was supposed to be a nothing job. Identify a body that’d been reduced to its component elements by a swarm of nanites, get a paycheck. Satya Hassan didn’t have to like the cops to like paying rent, and with more than half of the country out of work, well, a gig is a gig. Only now, she and Dan Landvik, a detective just promoted to homicide, are trapped on all sides by amoral megacorps, an uncaring government, and a mass-murderer that the Minneapolis Police Department doesn’t...

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  May the Fourth be with you, always.

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  The gutting of general education at my university has been formally defeated for this year.

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  My wife took a picture of me snoozing in bed this morning and I just wow *that's* how I look?!