I feel like my gender is partially nonbinary honestly. I do very much want a fully feminine body, but I don't think I have a particularly feminine personality. (This varies between headmates though, Kassiopeia seems quite feminine for example) If I was born in an AFAB body I would likely be a tomboy or maybe even fully non-binary. But with my current, quite masculine body, the desire to be more (physically) feminine is strong and influences my gender. It's all further complicated by me being of a species, meltcat, that, as far as I can tell, doesn't even have biological sexual dimorphism, as they can (partially) shapeshift (and therefore choose their genitals), and might not even have sexual reproduction in the same way as Earth animals (it might work by two or more meltcats melting down a part of their bodies each, pouring it into a single pile and stirring it a little bit to create meltcat goo that has some of each parent's genes).