My lovely neighbor across the street has quite possibly the perfect Kentucky bluegrass lawn. Has been impeccably maintaining it for the decades I’ve been here. We on the other hand have ripped out 80% of our grass & she has been looking across the street at our mature, native, xeric landscape for 20 years now. Last week she decided to rip out most of her lawn too. The drought is too much for it. Going to go native. I’m proud of her! If she is willing to do this, I bet your neighbor might, too.