@rees@pleroma.ree.social @f0x@darkdork.dev That's not what I was saying. There's like an actual reality that if you date 10 women - the likely hood of getting cheated on, having the relationship end in a nasty way, etc is a lot higher. Like maybe 10% of women cheat or whatever, if you date 3 women you may only ever have good experiences, but if you date 10 the likelihood of you acquiring trauma is much higher. And once you acquire trauma, it gets harder to pair bond or whatever. Not to be redpill hurr durr but like your ability to attach does get lowered. I wasn't saying MGTOW or whatever, I was just pointing out that dating around has very real downsides.