2026-09-26 18:39 UTC
Don’t private message me out of the blue to talk about your boner. I don’t know you, it’s creepy.
It’s not just an annoyance, it makes me feel like absolute shit and can properly ruin my day. To be so disrespected, to have my time and peace valued so cheaply... makes me feel worthless tbh.
It might feel low-stakes & cheeky to you - ‘where’s the harm in trying, eh?’ - but it is actually pretty harmful to me.
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@plzupgrademe@fedi.txw.ca 2026-09-26 23:36
@girlonthenet@mastodon.social attn anyone who would consider to message an unsolicited boner news update to anyone, send them to me, i’m a boner lightning rod. No pics but I’m fine to hear about boners and direct your boner DM’s to /dev/null to when i’m not in the mood for boners. Sincerely agree that unsolicited boner messages can make a person feel less than human and no one deserves them