2026-04-22 01:24 UTC
It depends. It's not usually like in porn (which usually looks like work because it is)
If it's with people who want to have mutual enjoyment in a caring way it can be amazing, but even one selfish person can bring the whole thing down and make it feel like a chore.
Men are more likely to be selfish.
I got paid a lot of money once to go dogging, and it was very unpleasant and not worth it. Meanwhile, a weekend-long foursome with 3 other women is one of my most cherished memories and a go-to to think about if I feel the need to Jill off.
Now I'm older I don't think I'd want to do more than a threesome with two women, though. It takes a certain amount of fitness that I just can't maintain any more.
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@fenrasulfr@lemmy.world 2026-04-22 13:40
So it is a matter of having partners you trust and enjoy being around. Still can't see myself ever doing it but thanks for explaining why it works for some people.
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@KeenFlame@feddit.nu 2026-04-22 19:15
Can you explain again, that part in more detail, its a little confusing to me. You did what exactly like more specifically maybe an outline of the events and then perhaps someone can explain which one is Jill