@kasdeya I liked "queer" as a general label better because I like the idea of destroying the idea of gender boundaries itself, but your argument is so good! Like, if saying everyone you support is the *default*, then bigotry shines by omission. I'm glad open support has become the default in the LGBTQIA+ community. Also, I'm crawling your archive. Can I crawl your archive? I like your archive! I've learned so much!