Maaike
ayke@blahaj.social
<p>transfem ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ, poly, plural, early 30s</p><p>FLINTA creatures are welcome to flirt ^^</p><p>HRT since 2024-08-23</p><p>Seen on FOSDEM{23,24,25,26}, SHA2017, MCH2022, WHY2025, {38,39}C3, EH23, GPN24, EMFCamp 2026<br />Next up: eth0, 40C3?</p><p>Neurospicy, easily overwhelmed especially by light and sound. Likes cuddling a lot - except when overwhelmed.</p><p>If you know me professionally, no you don't.</p><p><a href="https://blahaj.social/tags/nobot" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>nobot</span></a> (except for the sentient ones)</p>
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TIL that osmium is the densest material there is. Anyway, entirely unrelated, I went out tonight to the local trans cafe and it was nice. I met a new person there that I&#39;ve been cuddling with ๐
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Ableist BS I had to unlearn: the idea that premade food is necessarily worse than self cooked food. Yes there&#39;s a lot of premade food that&#39;s not very healthy. But there exists premade food that is healthy and is totally fine to eat. (Of course there are many reasons to cook your own, such as money, dietary/health reasons, wanting something different - but what I&#39;m trying to say is that it&#39;s not a moral failing if you have other priorities). (Yes this is kind of...
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I have a feeling I&#39;m never going to be able to be monogamous.
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Does anyone have thoughts on Immich? They&#39;re giving off nazi bar vibes, being sponsored by FUTO. See: https://drewdevault.com/weird-guys/#ewolf I tried it before, it was nice, but this kind of funding feels off. Also, they recently removed their code of conduct which is not a great sign: https://github.com/immich-app/immich/issues/31502 EDIT: they didn&#39;t remove the CoC, they simply moved it. (The commit message could have been a lot clearer though).
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Queer group chat that somehow got into a whole fight over the exact meaning of &quot;dyke&quot; and who can use the term, and meanwhile I&#39;m both ๐ฟ and ๐ญ trying not to get involved ๐
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How much do you distinguish between friendships and dating? This poll is mostly meant for neurodiverse polyamorous queer people (which seems to be most of fedi). I'm kinda curious, since the monogamous script tells you to clearly separate the two but I suspect a lot of queers don't. :boost_ok:
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Just remembered this album I used to listen to a lot. That cover is such a vibe! (Also, the music itself is nice I guess) https://open.spotify.com/album/3lDOcJSqTbqYb0Q9kn3GqH I love the idea of a body interwoven with machinery.
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What&#39;s this?? I sleep better with a partner than alone?? (Or at least not worse than when I&#39;m alone). This used to be very much the other way around.