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  Don’t shame fash for their bodies, or their kinks, or their disabilities, or whatever. That’s lateral violence on folks you know. Fucking shame them for being cowardly fash.

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  TFW you practice #polyamory on fedi, and you slowly realize you should avoid picking pointless fights on the internet because there’s a solid chance many of these people will end up as your telemetamours.

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  “Nonconsensual puberty” should not be a thing.

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  Why would you have lower standards for someone who has hurt you for decades than you would for a stranger?

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  PSA if you transitioned midlife, I strongly recommend you research insecure attachment styles, because you probably have one, and it’s probably connected to why you didn’t transition as a child.

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  Sometimes I think cis people forget that trans people are real live heroines and heroes with backstories that are astonishing, and they just want to live a cozy little life full of joy. Where do cis people think good stories come from?

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  I’m learning that along with more people to love, #polyamory brings more fretting about the safety of those more people.

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  Distance is transphobic, I wanna be in bed with my girlfriends.

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  I borrowed a house, and had my first parenting-overnight with the kids! #Divorce

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  It’s raining in Autumn and I’m at loose ends. Clearly I should be snuggling a gay girl.

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  Seriously, it’s really weird recognizing yourself in the “girl being yearned for/sung about/desired/mourned” in lesbian songs.

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  I just spent five minutes watching an air fryer work its convectiony magic on a leftover grilled cheese sandwich for the first time, and NGL, it was awesome.

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  I just want to read a 15 book series about a lesbian polycule forming around a coffee shop.

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  Okay hot take: tickling someone (adult, child, baby) who doesn’t explicitly ask to be tickled is the most fucked up coercion-justified-by-victim-blaming shit ever. Statements that are abuser shit: “Oh, you were laughing, so I ignored it when you said stop!” You know it’s possible to make victims orgasm during sexual assault, right? So why are you okay with totally disregulating someone by forcing them to laugh?

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  Lower Decks. https://mastodon.online/@batkaren/117179906682988418

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  ProTip: if you wanna text someone to ask them on a date and you don’t wanna feel like you are hovering over your phone jumping at every spam offer and shipping update, waiting on that ONE TEXT you want to see, text a whole bunch of friends and strike up conversations so you have other interesting and uplifting reasons to be checking your phone.

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  Is anyone else super gay for the vampire Kate Beckinsale plays in Underworld?

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  Berenstain bears and the trouble with heteronormativity.

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  Periodic offer to try to organize a trans group chat on signal about: - parenting, - processing issues with spouses or family, - working-while-trans, - oh-goddess-I-need-a-group-chat, - or polyamory support (talking and processing, not looking for dates). If you are interested, reply on this thread and indicate which you are interested in. My preference is for ya’ll to self-organize, but I’ll step in if I feel it would help.

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  If a werewolf girl gets electro in human form, does she have bald patches in the corresponding place in wolf form?

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  I gotta say, 30 mg daily of Prozac appears to be my friend. I’m feeling substantially more competent, but more than that, I’m not despairing and paralyzed about how I’m achieving whatever imagined standard of adulting I’m not measuring up to.

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  I just totally did a bunch of posing and smiling in a mirror because my face is fucking gorgeous. How did I get this *hot!?* Maybe it’s natural. Maybe it’s estradiol. But I repeat myself.

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  Concept: lesbian solarpunk bookstore that shelves all contemporary romance under “dystopian” and all contemporary straight romance under “dystopian, horror”

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  Dear cis people, more trans people will be born. They’ll be your children and grandchildren. They’ll learn our history. And they’ll learn what you did or didn’t do, when we needed you.

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  Does anyone have good, non-AI written, not-super-violent hyperpop song recommendations? Bonus points for “coder girl slice of life” or “mecha girl” themes. (I enjoy some Charli Morgan like “Lip Gloss and Lasers” but a lot of it veers a bit too into blowing up people for my taste.)

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  So, since Earth is under Galactic Empire levels of patriarchal oppression, it turns out that life goals of “transition and kiss girls in public” is like PEAK levels of resistance to fascism.

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  Genocide includes erasing a people’s history. Age verification is an act of genocide against queer people. Classifying our writings and media as pornography simply BECAUSE we are queer is an act of genocide against queer people.

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  Hey dilation folks, what’s everyone using for lube? I switched lubes a week ago and now my vulva is angry and red 😔 I was using McKesson and I switched to Good Clean Love (which I’ve generally heard good things about).

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  Hi cis people! Happy pride! Today #SCOTUS ruled that trans people can fuck off and die. I know you haven’t personally watched any trans people kill themselves, but we are suffering even if you don’t observe it firsthand. Please do accept that this is genocide; I’d like to say “this is how it starts” but we’re well past that now. Please #boost, call your reps to tell them to support bodily autonomy and #trans rights, and go here to oppose a trans gag rule: https://chaosfem.tw/@Willow/1166779385...

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  It’s too late to stop me. #ThingsYouCantUnsay #trans #transition I already did it. I’m beyond their checkpoints. They can still kill me. They can still cage me. They can still martyr me. And I haven’t reach the end of my journey. But they can’t stop me from self-actualizing. They, here a pronoun in its multiple and nameless form, affirming no one. The agents of the patriarchy. Everyday people, when they act from the internalized patriarchal norms they’ve been inundated with. They, who dec...