No-one. Absolutely no-one. If I get widowed tomorrow, imma gonna stay single for the rest of my days. Not only am I edging into that age where I am becoming increasingly cranky and unwilling to change for someone else (I have changed enough for my wife of 30 years), but I have also been keeping a light finger on what’s happening out there between the sexes, and _holy shite_ that’s become one hell of a mess that I want absolutely nothing to do with. I mean, the door isn’t going to be barred and locked. But it _is_ going to be firmly closed and with a cinder block in the way. If someone wants through, they are going to have to demonstrate _real effort_ in their pursuit of me. But then again, I would be shocked AF if any woman thought pursuit of any kind wasn’t beneath them. So I guess my peace and quiet would be quite safe. Thank the lord.