When you wonder why a colleague wrote that convoluted function. When you become curious why a user clicked the wrong button. When you ask why your manager is pushing hard on a deadline. You have become more human. Yes, you will get better outcomes too. If you do it for that reason, move from a place of service and curiosity and towards a place of where people are things for you to get what you want. And we don't want that in our lives. You don't want others to treat you that way.