I wish people would assume good by default, instead of quickly jumping into assumptions of bad from something so mundane and simple or lacking a tiny few details... then blowing things into outrageous porportions because of the fixation on the evil intents that were fabricated to begin with. So much of my life is a painful memory due to people assuming my intents were bad, when all I intend is good. Am I difficult? Isn't everyone? Humans are complex creatures. https://bigthink.com/work-wise/the-psychological-trap-that-distorts-how-you-see-difficult-people/