the second half of this essay feels like such a breath of fresh air to read, god. We avoid the hell out of this discourse we hate it so much and it feels like anything it touches it destroys and its been a nightmare seeing it take over trans spaces the last few years https://juliaserano.medium.com/on-male-socialization-and-the-trans-masc-versus-trans-fem-discourse-14bccb196a63