So I'm back from the hospital. They found some reddened areas inside the bladder, so I just won a TUR (trans urethral resection). Which means general anesthetic and two days at the hospital. "How are you insured? One bed or two bed room?" "Actually two bed, but since I'm transgender, other patients might have a problem with that." "Oh, completely forgot!" :ablobcatheartsqueeze: "I'll see that you get a single room. That's more comfortable too, right?" Talk openly to people and you would be surprised how many just are unaware of problems, but still friendly :blobcatgiggle: