@morganth@social.tchncs.de There’s a huge difference between wanting to help and actually being able to help. Being seen as helpful gives status and recognition. Actually helping can be difficult and mean sacrifices. People who need help often don’t know what kind of help they need and how to ask for. They can usually describe their problem though. Helping someone understand the problem and figure what kind of help they need, is difficult and many would be helpers fail at this point.