I enjoy seeing people be different!! I admit I may stare for a second but thats because I find it interesting. Sometimes when out with the in laws they have to whisper among themselves about how "weird" something is or outright be like "is that person _gay_?" And I'll say I'm not sure, it doesn't affect you, and their clothes are fabulous arent they?? Fricken old boomers man. They love to whisper among themselves at anyone who's not straight and white. Its their culture.