After Anonymous leaked the evidence in the Steubenville rape case in 2013 — including the video of the rapists' friends laughing and joking while the rape was ongoing — I sat down with my oldest (then 14) and made him listen to the audio with me. We talked for a long time about what his responsibilities were if he should ever find himself in such circumstances That kid, who coincidentally graduated from Cornell a few years ago, is 27 now Seems to me that a lot of parents missed an easy opportunity to have a hard conversation with their kids about not being bystanders (never mind rapists) Incidentally, the rapists in the Steubenville case served a collective three years between them and went right back to playing football because boys' lives are sacred and girls matter not even a little bit https://www.espn.com/college-football/story/_/id/23473841/malik-richmond-youngstown-state-penguins-removed-sex-offender-list https://www.espn.com/college-football/story/_/id/13171184/ex-steubenville-player-convicted-rape-joining-hocking-community-college-team