@gairdeachas Have you seen Heated Rivalry? I swear I'm going somewhere with this, but I also don't want to spoil something (even if it's not plot-critical) if you aren't familiar and the mental bridge of it is going to be lost if you haven't seen it. But to put it mildly, I absolutely agree. When I first came out to my sister, she immedately said 'Well I guess you're not having kids' and when I said I could adopt she replied 'I hope that's not legal' She's actually the best of immediate.