@gregeganSF@mathstodon.xyz The Pitt had a list of things to say to someone you're letting go, which is presumably a real protocol known by people who are around death I don't remember it well but it was approx. * I love you * I know you loved me * I forgive you * I hope you forgive me Seems like good stuff to leave in your wake if you leave a message. Plus all the fun/good stuff you can think of