@morganth@social.tchncs.de Yes. I'm bad at asking for help, frequently would like to offer it or be helpful, sometimes don't know how. One thing I try to remember is that for some people, just asking "Hey do you want to hang out sometime?" is actually asking for help. I understand there's a bit of an ask/guess culture divide where some people feel put on the spot if you ask them for a thing they can't/won't do, so I try to be careful with my requests, but it's good (and hard,for me) to flex that "asking" muscle.