Post #1668220 · Elektrine

2026-04-24 15:53 UTC

> You ever wonder what's going on with the 77 other women you didn't match with? Or are we supposed to believe they somehow never actually existed? I don’t need to wonder, you can literally download your statistics, and they provide comparative results. But I would have thought the reason was obvious. Most men literally swipe right on everyone. Most women are considerably more selective. They get more matches because chances are the guy they’ve swiped right on has already swiped right on them. That aspect is not a conspiracy. Exactly the same as if your hot wife suddenly divorced you. There will be far more men knocking down her door than women knocking on yours.

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@cecilkorik@lemmy.ca 2026-04-24 16:49

It doesn't sound like you really have any understanding of, or concern for, what happened to the other 77 women, nor what happened to the other 79+ men your girlfriend "swiped left" on in your scenario. And you're accusing me of using boomer logic? That's some classic boomer logic if I've ever heard it: "I got mine, fuck the rest of you, it's obvious why you all failed, you just need to work harder or lower your standards, even though I didn't, because everything just worked out flawlessly for me and I don't want to be too introspective about why in case I accidentally develop some empathy about it" Yeah, dating apps are just fine the way they are. Nothing wrong with them at all.

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