you never hear feminine folks on voice chat. Because a lot of the time when you have a female[-presenting] voice, you get either pigeon-holed into certain roles ("we need you to be the healer!"), patronized for skills that would be unremarkable in a male [-sounding] player, griefed by your sex when you make a mistake ("stupid fucking cunt!"), get white knighted sometimes ("oh, here, you take this! tiny shy giggle), sent explicit messages in group chat or PM, etc, etc. Even if you disguise your voice or stay off chat, you still need to have a certain level of tolerance for the misogyny, sexism and racism that crops up.