@raccoon@fedi.raccoonden.moe i have always taken pride to be one who acts the other way around, to calmly and patiently write explanations that i hoped would be well understandable and tried to guide someone on his journey, or add deep niche knowledge I still try this here But i also recognice all the time, it does rarely lead to social feedback and building connections. Much more i read diffuse complaints about "reply guys" and not even a hint if I was targeted because i might have made something wrong