@Sjkiinay@tech.lgbt @TinCanWin@mstdn.social also there's "look at it for an instant, then walk away, but come back later and look at it for a couple seconds, then leave again, but return sooner this time and look at it for a minute or two, and so on, ad-not-quite-infinitum, until eventually you get to the point where you're not going to leave until you do it."