This whole conversation is such a false dichotomy. The laws can absolutely be written such that companies are required to suspend service to any suspected child without requiring ID to use the service. But just like pollution and everything else we've let them push the buck to us. The problem is that politicians don't want to legislate enforcement/oversight entities as those would piss off their owners. Democracies need to replace their lame duck politicians with ones that aren't bought and owned by the shareholder class who also own the social media corporations.